relationship of command

its wierd how we arent in control of everything that happens around and to us. we think that we have total control of our own life but the truth is, we have zilch control over things and how they turn out. we can plan and plan and plan how we want things to happen, but the truth of the matter is, things NEVER turn out the way its supposed to be. we cant anticipate the result because it usually turns out completely different to what we had planned. the thing i've learned so far, is that in a screwed up wierd sorta way, things turn out and work themselves out. it may not be the exact result that we hoped for, but it works out. and its about how u take these "different" results that matter. its not about getting your "perfect" results.